Living life in our own way is not always simple as we think. There are always lots of parameters which need to be considered. But finally we would be the major stockholder for whatever outcome, so we should have a proper understanding of the issue/problem. Many times it happens that due to not having enough amount of data related to a particular problem, we face hurdles unnecessarily and that creates whirlpools in life. 

Sometimes the solution revolves around us but due to our negligence, it never comes and we suffer a lot.

Instead of talking about problems and giving their philosophical solutions, I should pour something in empty glass. Ok! here start with an example.

One day one of my friend asked my that how a 24 year girl conceive her parents not to get married? Instantly i said it is very simple but i would give you the full answer later on. So i thought giving a generic solution is always appreciated and creates a mass impact. 

So here is my answer 

First thing

 Are you kidding me that you will never get married ?? :p ;). Don't say like this. What i'll do in that case ?? :p ....(kidding man)

Ok! Lets try to be little bit serious at this time. I think this is a very simple problem of 24-27 age group.  You can find almost everybody in this age talking about these problems. Actually they know everything about it but still they pretend. 

I think abstraction is not pretty!!! So lets get rid of this and let me tell you in simple words that 

 In life if you really want that something will happened according to your wish then you have to be very strong enough to accept the challenges. And its only you, who knows whether you are capable or not. So don't pretend.

Accept the truth or be ready to face the challenges. If you willing to face the challenges, i am sure you will get your destination (can avoid marriage ). Be deterministic first and then proceed accordingly to solve the problem. The  moment you decide one path, you'll get the direction automatically.

If you really interested, then i can show you some direction but first you have to make the decision. 

  

Shivraj